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A Child Chosen - Perspectives of an Adoptive Parent

Post Traumatic Stress in Post Institutionalized Children

by Marcie on November 5th, 2007

Since adopting AJ we have been dealing with symptoms of Institutional Autism, something that the Autism community thinks is a quack theory but an illness and diagnosis that we know to be very real.

We know that AJ had a very traumatic life in the orphanage but we don’t know why. When we visited him he seemed happy, content, very excited to see us and comfortable with his caregivers, although they were rough with him. We do know that he spent almost 3 months in the hospital directly after birth before being transfered to the orphanage and that he had transfered orphanage rooms several times since his arrival. This, by itself could lead to trauma because of the consistency issues.

The American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) for the diagnosis of PTSD is that “the person experienced, witnessed, or was confronted with an event or events that involved actual or threatened death or serious injury, or a threat to the physical integrity of self or others. The person’s response to the event must involve intense fear, helplessness, or horror.”

Daniel Hughes, PhD, and author of Principles of Attachment says that the most common cause of PTSD is abuse and neglect. He calls neglect “the trauma of absence.” While many assume that abuse is far more traumatic than neglect, we now know that neglect is equally harmful. We also know that the combination of abuse and neglect can be shattering to a child’s psyche.

So could this be where AJ’s PTSD stems from? And is this where his Institutional Autism stems from? Is he so traumatized that he retreats?

The same article states that children resort to a fight or flight response but if they can’t flee they go internal. We see this often with AJ, especially if he gets in trouble. We often see his eyes glaze over and he retreats into his “autistic state”…using echolalia and a retreat and repeating nonsense words to escape from reality.

But, he also becomes hyperactive before bedtime because we know that that was a very scary time for him the orphanage. He avoids sleeping at all costs.

Interpersonal trauma (such as abandonment, neglect or abuse) is experienced as more severe than trauma of nonhuman origin (such as a car accident). In interpersonal trauma, the severity increases with the closeness of the relationship. Thus abandonment or violence inflicted by her mother would be experienced by a child as extremely devastating. Secondary adversities, such as displacement or relocation after the traumatic event add to the likelihood of developing PTSD. Therefore, an infant who has been abandoned by her birthparents, traumatized by a stay in an orphanage, and is then adopted by strangers is at exceptional risk for dissociation and chronic PTSD.

PTSD can also has an effect on the development on children, including delays in cognition, gross and fine motor, and language development. Children can relieve trauma in any number of way, though nightmares and sleep (AJ did this through night terrors every night for two years), through flashbacks, through imaginary play, through hyperarousal, (another one of AJ’s issues) or by shutting down (which AJ never does).

Treatment? Some suggest Holding Time but our attachment therapist said this was not something for sensory hypersensitive children and for adoptive children who don’t trust. They only time I hold is when he is not being safe (but that is another topic).

Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing helps people revisit trauma, reprocess and desensitize their memories, and resolve their feelings.

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5 opinions for Post Traumatic Stress in Post Institutionalized Children

  • Kate
    Nov 5, 2007 at 11:25 pm

    Would co-sleeping or child massage help AJ ?

  • Marcie
    Nov 5, 2007 at 11:41 pm

    Yes we do this often.
    However, co-sleeping does not help him. He is a very restless sleeper and actually has a neurological dysfunction for sleep. He takes clonidine to help him regulate his sleep and ease him into REM.

    We slept with him in a crib in our room for a long time, as that is where he felt most comfortable. He was used to the security of the bars, as are many children from Russia. He did not like transitioning to a big boy bed and did not do it until he was 3.5.

    We use deep massage to help him, much harder than most children would probably like. He craves deep pressure due to his sensory issues and uses a weighted blanket to help him sleep too.

    We believe he was swaddled for so long that he learned to crave the pressure of the swaddle that without it he does not feel. It goes with the crib and the sense of security.

  • Hevel
    Nov 6, 2007 at 3:42 pm

    EMDR is very useful. While I am among those (small % of people) who are not suitable for EMDR, I have seen it work wonders with youth I work with.

    However, I believe, a child needs to be a certain age/maturity befor eit can actually work?

  • Marcie
    Nov 6, 2007 at 4:48 pm

    You know, I am not sure about the age, as I have just heard about this technique.

    BTW, as far as the pictures of extended family, they have asked to keep those private. So, I can post our immediate fam only. Sorry Hevel.

  • Hevel
    Nov 7, 2007 at 2:07 am

    I totally understand: I think the only pictures of my immediate family are all at password protected places and I have one extended family somewhere online thatw as taken at a massive family reunion and it is very hard to see who is who anyway.

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